How would you feel if your own brother will choose someone else over you? The pain is beyond bearable especially when all your life you’ve spent together experiencing life’s deepest sorrow.
When you are the eldest of the family you took care of your younger brothers and sisters. It’s you who look after them and see to it that they are in good and in comfortable state. You strive hard in order for them to see what you have done and for them to look upon you. You struggle to survive and sacrifice something just for them, though they didn’t ask for it. You wanted a good life for them so you help them to get by and see them through and through. All you dreamed and wished is for them to live better and above all live in accordance to the laws of God because you wouldn’t allow them to live astray and become miserable someday.
And now that they are big and accomplished, your voice is of little importance. Your admonishment is considered unprincipled and contemptible. You then become the antagonist of their life. It’s truly excruciating. Maybe your role as a sister ends here and that you still wish them good luck.